Why am I such a fool?

It does not matter who you are - a girl or a guy. Here you will receive explanations and advice for yourself.

In your head, you just have one thought: "Well, why am I such a fool!". She does not give you rest. You want to cry, beat your head against the wall, or just fall asleep for a few days, then wake up and forget everything. And the main thing is that all the others also do not remember anything! Lord, well, how do you want to start everything from scratch, turn the time back ...

Say "do not worry, you're not stupid" can all. How they fret, because I know that right now I'm such a fool! So ... you need another now. Need explanations, advice, help at last!

Why am I a fool?

You, of course, can take the test on the Internet"Why am I such a fool?", but there are plenty of possible reasons. For example, you decided that with this guy you can lose your virginity: and you like him, and gives flowers, and calls forever ... And you see, after your "second time" visited the thought that he had not yet walked up, young Mol. What a fool I am, you think! And it was obvious to everyone, except me ... oh, it's me!

Or he calls you already once the fourth toinvite somewhere, and you break. Because the fifth time - a diamond! And the girls tell you, let them run, fall in love. And he, it turns out, already went on vacation ... alone, did not have time to call the fifth time and you to call him. And again for the whole apartment: "Well, I'm a fool!".

"Do not worry," the peasant will tell you, explaining this by saying that all the women are fools. Go to your friend, she will tell you that we are not stupid, but lovely, gentle and trustful.

What if I'm a fool?

I want to congratulate you. You got a lot of experience and you do not get into this situation in the future. Now take a piece of paper and cut it in half with a vertical line. In the left column, write down the cons of what happened, and in the right - the pros. Try to think about what happened in detail. Write down even the most stupid moments. This will help you relax, look at the problem from the reasonable side without emotions. You will not suppress these emotions in yourself, but it's great to explain them to yourself and you will! And next time in a similar situation you will not turn out to be such a fool.

Why are all women such fools?

Everyone has known for a long time that girls and guysbuild logical chains in your head in different ways. And the length of the chains is not the same. The girl will search for all a huge number of causes and causes, reflect on the double sense of what has been said, invent tricky hints. The man is simpler and more straightforward. Wherever the easiest way is needed, a woman will wind herself with clever variations of a complex path. Therefore, men often think that their wife is such a fool. It is difficult for us to understand each other, because we think in different ways.

What should I say! Themselves of the fair sex can be difficult to understand, but after that it's easy to believe that women are such fools!

Now, more specifically ... If your girl is a fool

You're not a stupid, cute, young guy, soand with a sense of humor. It is clear why she began to meet with you. But why did you choose her so cool? I guess you got excited. Nastia, Julia Katya ... fools, because they did something wrong? You can advise to start everything to discuss. After all, often a person does not even know that some things his beloved did not like. One instructive story tells of a single married couple who lived together for 50 years. And on this jubilee day the wife wakes up in the morning, goes as usual to the kitchen, to cook her beloved husband breakfast. He cuts off a freshly crusty crust with a crusty crust for her husband, and she is visited by the thought: "all 50 years I have given the most delicious crusts to my husband, and the worse I am, I will eat it today!". When my husband went into the kitchen, he did not believe his eyes and was surprised: "Darling, today you gave me the softest part of a biscuit." Tell me, why did you take revenge on me all these years with your stale crust? "

If it seems that your girlfriend is a fool, talk to her about things that do not suit you before you leave her.