Why are people friends?

People, how much they exist, constantly strive forto communicate with each other. There is even in world psychology such a statement that people, first of all, are social beings. This means that, being completely alone, a person very quickly dies or goes mad. Communication is necessary for us to sustain life, like water or food - this is a proven fact.

However, communication for us is not the sameprocess. We very clearly distinguish between the relationship in terms of proximity, sexual relations (the closest ones), then there are related, friendly, workers, superficial. Friendly ties are in the third place in the person of necessity and the amount of time that we give him.

Now let's consider, after all, why people are friends? Native - this is understandable. We, as you know, do not choose them and we communicate with them a lot of time, because we see and get used to them from birth. Having grown up, we, being guided by natural instincts, choose our sexual partner. With him, we try to spend most of the time, because it's interesting, we want to like him, and this is possible only in the process of constant communication. But in communication with one sexual partner you will not be full. Those people with whom we want to spend time together, because our interests coincide, but there is no desire to have sex - can rightfully be considered our friends.

Because, so often happens that friendsare the same sex with us. And because, so rarely we can boast of friendship with the opposite sex. Almost always it turns out that either one or the other side secretly dreams of something more than friendship.