Should I call first?

In the relationship of two close people to intervene -it's an ungrateful job. They will sort it out better than with someone else's help. And there are different things between them - quarrels, insults, quarrels, even betrayals and breaks. We listed all the unpleasant side of the relationship, when a girl may have a question, is it worth calling first. Sometimes a call is a step towards reconciliation.

Who is this guy to you?

Before thinking about whether to call a guyfirst, we must decide - and who is this person to you, why do you need it? If he is your only and beloved for life, then, probably, it's worth calling. And if you've known each other for a week and it's gone, why do you need to be reminded of yourself? It's another matter if you like it immensely, and you want a serious and long relationship. Then you can call and invite yourself on a date. Just do it easily, as if by accident, by the way. Make it clear that you did not plan anything. And better lead the guy to him himself invited you.

Recall his character

The call, as we have already determined, is a step towardsreconciliation. If this man is close and dear to you, then you probably know if he is on the first step? There are men who will not go to be reconciled, even if they are to blame and have long since realized everything and really want to make up. If yours is just that, then call first. There's nothing to be done. And if he constantly goes first to reconciliation, and in this case he has been silent for a week, rest assured, he has already calmed down with another matter (not necessarily a woman), and waits, when will you break. Call, even if you decide to part with such a man, because it's interesting that he has changed!

Measure, degree of guilt

Is it worth it to call the first man, if heofficially stated that he broke with you? And if offended that you broke his favorite cup? Do you understand what else affects your decision? If the reason for your break is such that you never forgive, then there is nothing to call, only the mood to yourself once again spoil. And if the cause of the quarrel is small, then do not be angry with the man, forgive him and call. Why waste time on a quarrel, when it can be occupied by something else together with a loved one.

How to determine?

Yes, you will say, it is easy for you to reason and dividethe situation on the "decided to part" and "slightly quarreled." And if you decide, and the first dial his number is difficult? Then do this: take a sheet of paper and write on it on the right all the positive sides of your loved one, and to the left all the negative. Then opposite each feature, evaluate the 10-point system. Add the resulting figures and see what is more - positive or negative? If there are more advantages, do not even think whether to call first, call! Well, if the cons ... think ahead. This method though smacks of bureaucracy, but it gives a more or less adequate picture of your relationship, which is just so in your head you will not get together, especially when you are on emotional platoon.