Do I need a husband?
Every young girl or mature womanasked a rhetorical question - do I need a husband? Whether this desire to resemble all married people, or simply a "cry" of soul and loneliness. Live there are thousands of women without a stamp in their passport, or even limited to rare encounters with their lover. As they say, no one is obliged to anyone and no one is attached to anyone. But this is only a temporary joy from freedom, then female psychology and the instinct of a legitimate spouse take precedence. And, this, for the better! Well, it was not in vain in the very antiquity that they came up with the institution of the family, it is everyone who deserves to finish it and, preferably, with distinction. A woman and it is for healthy motherhood, and for self-affirmation is necessary.
So, why do you need a husband for a woman? Opinions on this subject can be very different, but we will first consider the bright side of marriage. Firstly, the husband is the same person who becomes a reliable support for the woman, the head of the family and the guardian of order in the family. It's no accident that they used to say "to be married", which means that a woman should be behind her husband, behind his strong back and for his status as a leader.
Secondly, it is best for a woman to have a baby,being a legitimate spouse. This morally calms, and legally insures against many problems, and in society to a married woman is treated differently - the status of respect and trust deserves. It is the HUSBAND, and not just the biological father of the child, who will always be responsible for the family and for his legitimate child. Yes, and the most matured child in the future will be pleased to say: I have a real dad, and my mother has a legal husband.
Thirdly, it is not necessary to dissemble, but every girl,thinking: whether it is necessary for the husband to me, definitely decides - it is needed! This and the status of the girl raises, and the relatives are happy with the stability, and provides the woman with a harmonious sexual life. But in fact it's been a long time since - the girl has matured and must marry, and even a word about the divorce was afraid of the word. This situation of a woman - a married lady - made her much more mature, more responsible, and in the eyes of those around her exalted "on her head".
Many women get real pleasure from wearing an engagement ring, a stamp in their passport and a proud statement: "I am now a WIFE!"
Well, now about the dark side of the "moon", that is aboutwhether to hang a woman on herself with a sign "married", or continue to continue to live a free, carefree life. The husband is a constant control, the responsibilities of marital, common life and systematic "grinding". And many women are so satisfied with their bachelorhood that they are not going to refuse it. Here they involuntarily and wonder: Do I need it? Of course, the woman herself decides - to marry her or remain free from marriage bonds. But, you will agree, that the position of the WIFE still gives a lot of advantages and confidence in the future. After all, next to a woman, both in sorrow and in joy, will be her beloved husband - legal and unique.