How to become popular in school?
Popularity does not come at once. To find it, you need to act systematically. Let's figure out how to become popular in school.
A complex approach
- Activity. First of all, you must become socially active. Without this, popularity hardly shines. Communicate - a lot and productive. Get acquainted with people throughout the school. More interesting friends - a plus to the level of popularity. Expand the circle of communication constantly. Be attentive to friends - do not forget to congratulate them on holidays, regularly invite them to meetings, make parties. But do not be too intrusive - otherwise you, on the contrary, will be shunned.
- Find a company. It's easier to be popular in a popular company. If such is in the spotlight - get acquainted with its participants, tie up communication. You can choose one person from the company, the most pleasant to you - and make friends with him. So you'll get a new friend - and get closer to the popularity.
- The popular personality is bold and bright. It stands out - and not necessarily appearance. Find in yourself what will set you apart. Maybe it's a sharp mind or the ability to make anyone laugh? Or strength of character? Rummage in yourself - such a feature, "zest", is found in every person. Do not be afraid to exercise it.
- Have your own opinion and more often express it. The main thing is to be able to convey it not sharply, offending someone, but tactfully. It is important to be able to justify why you think so, and not otherwise. Then they will start to listen to you, and this is the key to popularity.
- Hence follows the following skill - oratoricalskill. Did you notice that celebrities, as a rule, are excellent at the public? This is useful to learn: what kind of popular person who can not connect two words? Therefore, often speak to people, participate in discussions, just talk.
- Appearance. This point is not in the first place, but not at the last. To be popular, you should have a nice look. Do not get lost in the crowd - find your style. Try to skillfully combine clothes, accessories and a hairdress, do not paint too defiantly, play with images. It will draw attention to you.
- Be interesting. Start a hobby, learn languages, go to courses, read books and listen to music from different directions. The circle of acquaintances will expand, and people are always attracted by enthusiastic personalities.
- Study. Being smart is important, it causes respect. Therefore do not hesitate to be an excellent pupil.
- Participate in public life. So you can express yourself to the whole school and, perhaps, show your hidden abilities and talents.
- Do not be afraid to accept bold challenges - so you will increase self-confidence and earn the respect of others.
Most importantly, learn to respect and love yourself. Then persistent popularity is assured to you!
More useful recommendations can be found in articles How to become more popular and How to become famous.
