What will my husband be like?

The question of what my husband will be, anya young person. Only some of them believe in fate and completely give themselves to the will of fate. Others know exactly what kind of man they want to see in the role of spouse and try to make their own destiny on their own. Which option is closer to you? Let's look at both.

By the Will of the Waves

Serve-mummified, come to me dressed up! At least once in a lifetime, every girl says these cherished words, trying to foresee or anticipate in dreams and divinations the image of her future spouse. What methods do they use?

Fortune Tellers

Few people decide to go to the session to the presentfortune-telling fortune-teller. And yet curiosity sometimes gets better, when you really want to know what kind of husband will be. Then the girl goes to the fortune-teller.

And she does not deceive the hopes of the young man. Believe that she will tell you when and for whom you will get married, how many children you give birth, how much you will live, and so on and so forth. And that's interesting. Very often predictions come true! Can,

of course, to seek in this some kind of mystical meaning. But, as a rule, everything is much simpler. If a girl believes the predictions of a fortuneteller, then the programming mechanism is simply triggered. That is, you have a program that you subconsciously follow, performing all the points predicted by the fortune teller. This is nothing more than the effect of auto-suggestion.

So think carefully before deciding on such an adventure. And what if the predictions are not as radiant as you would like?

Divination

Divination by a betrothed is a traditional entertainmentyoung girls in almost all countries. Likewise, our great-grandmothers, grandmothers and mothers tried to foresee the fate. We, too, following their example and experience, are also trying to guess. How exactly?

• Spiritistic session. This is fortune-telling on a silver platter. On a large sheet of paper draw a circle. On its circumference write letters of the alphabet and numbers from 0 to 10. In the center of the circle place the saucer with the arrow drawn on it. All participants of fortune telling touch the saucer with one hand and evoke the spirit of any deceased person. According to the concept of divination, the spirit must come and answer the questions that will be asked to it. In the process of "communication," the saucer begins to move around in a circle, pointing the arrow at the letters that form in response. Here are the girls and ask all the details about their narrowed.
• Guessing on mirrors. Left alone in an empty room (used to house a village bathhouse earlier), the girl builds a corridor from the mirrors. For this, she sets one mirror behind her, and the other in front of her. The room is lit only lighted candles. The girl sitting in front of the mirror repeats the very words about the sucheno-ryazhenogo and carefully peers into the mirror corridor. As a result of this divination in this mirror corridor, her future husband should appear (reflect).
• Habitation fortune telling is very often aimed at finding outdetails about the future husband. A girl can go out on the night before Christmas or before Epiphany, stop any man and ask his name. What name will be called, and will call her future husband.
• Burning paper or casting wax - guessing, bywho can try to find out the nature or profession of the future husband. If you ask such a question before guessing, you can try to see the image of an animal or other symbols in the outline of a shadow from burnt paper or frozen in water. For example, the plane - the husband will be the pilot, the bear - the husband will be large, unhurried and strong.

But whatever guesswork you choose, remember that inThis, first, always hides an element of the game or a joke. And secondly, to those who are sensitive, such entertainments can indeed program fate!

By my own free will

It also happens that the girl does not seek an answer to thethe question of who will be my husband, because in advance for myself everything is determined. That is, she clearly represents what kind of man she would like to see next to her. This, of course, is a collective image, in which, as a rule, certain specific requirements are dominant.

For example, a girl wants to be her husband onlya man with specific external data. She is important, what he will be growing, what color he will have hair and eyes, what type of physique. And then she pays attention only to those applicants who meet her requirements. Or for the girl the character of the future husband, his psychological type is important. Then she does not pay attention to external data and looks deeper, trying to find someone with a certain temper and attitude to life.

Some girls overpower the idea-fix, and they want to marry only for the military

or for a doctor, for a man of art or for a millionaire. Such girls, as a rule, reach the set goal and really marry the one they wanted.

But only such marriages do not always happensuccessful. After all, it is not enough to marry a man who "suits" the role of your husband. It is very important then to get along with this person, and even try to be happy.

Where are those girls that are wiserknow what the future husband will be, and therefore build their relations accordingly. Such marriages, oddly enough, can be attributed to marriage by calculation. Only the calculation here is somewhat different. That is, the girl in advance counts on something certain, what she can get from this marriage and what she is able to do for a happy marriage. And often such marriages prove to be strong and durable.

Interesting information on the topic of marriage you will also find in our article What should be the husband.