How to talk to a girl?
When a young man gets acquainted with a girl, sheremains a long time for him a real mystery, so when the couple is alone, a young man has a fear that needs to be overcome and start a conversation. So, let's try to figure out how to talk to the girl.
Rules of communication
First of all, pay attention to how youspeak. Try to listen to your speech from the side. After all, even the most ridiculous anecdote can be told in such a way that it will not cause laughter, but bewilderment. What affects the outcome of your conversation is the timbre and intonation of words that you need to learn to control. In your stock, they must be different, because each girl should have her own approach.
Of course, intonation directly depends on the meaningyour speech. If you tell any funny case, you can include facial expressions and gestures, while the meaning of the story will be much clearer, and the story itself will interest the girl. Compliments and other intimate information should preferably be told quietly and with aspiration. However, in all cases it is worth remembering that any speech should be correct and literate, without obscene expressions.
If you have any problems with speech,it is desirable to pre-rehearse phrases about the mirror. Thanks to a huge amount of information on this topic on the Internet, you can easily understand how to learn to talk with girls.
Topics of conversation
Guys are different from their girlslaconic, which is very repellent to the weaker sex. However, you should always be prepared for the fact that any lady will sooner or later run out of topics for discussion, and she will offer to continue the conversation to you. Prepare for this is worth it in advance, think about what topics will interest her most. Among such topics are:
- story about your family
- a story about a child
- a story about your plans and aspirations in the near and long term future
- a story about what you have achieved so far
Remember that your main goal is not to look like a boring bore in the girl's eyes. If you have a mutual acquaintance, then consider that you are saved.
How correctly to talk with a girl, so as not to seem obtrusive? Remember that any conversation with a particular weak sex must necessarily include:
- unexpected compliments, about her beautiful appearance and style of clothes (this is loved by every girl);
- interested comments on a topic that affects her. You can also ask her about the attitude to your topic, so that the conversation is not one-sided.
In any case, do not long extend to one topic, especially if it does not have anything to do with your girlfriend. Try to diversify the conversation so that the lady does not start to get bored.
To understand how to talk with a girl is not so hard. You can mentally put yourself in her place, because if the girl is wise, communication with her will pass easily and at ease on any topic.
