How to love a wife?

Noisy wedding, months went by. And somehow the couple quietly separated from each other. But most recently the husband proudly declared: "I love my wife!" And so it happens in many young (and not so) families. So what's the deal? What happened? And the answer, meanwhile, is simple.

How to love your wife - practical advice

The thing is that both halves needlove and attention not only before the wedding, but also after. And especially need the attention of women. How to love your wife and show her that you love her? As always, nothing particularly difficult. And start with the most basic things. First, look at how you communicate with your spouse. "Give me," "bring it," "and where is dinner?", "What's there again?" - these things need to be set aside. It's much better to use "give, please," instead of "give," "instead of" and where is dinner? "" Dear, and lunch is already ready? ", Instead of" what's there again? "" Beloved, what happened? "If you do not know how , learn this will not take much energy. Otherwise, I'll ask you a question: why did you even get married? A wife is not a piece of furniture, but a living person who needs daily attention and care - at least in some form. And the easiest way is to show this attention in a kind word. Next: do not give gifts only when you once again "nakosyachili." And do not give gifts only about. Buy in the middle of the working week a bouquet of flowers that your spouse likes or box of favorite sweets. Yes, even a simple chocolate, donated without reason, will be much more pleasant for her than another decoration, handed in as a "compensation for moral damage." It is a gifted person, because this is no longer a gift - it is compensation. And even better - do not bring to this.

Joint activities are the key to a lasting relationship

The phrase pronounced in the title of this section, onin fact, it is very important. When you got married, you did not plan to live separately, even within the same apartment? So why do you now only meet at breakfast and dinner? No matter how busy you are, at least an hour or two a day can always be allocated to relatives. All money you will not earn, and even many rich people who work 25 hours a day, find time for their wives. You can also. Take a walk together, go somewhere. Do not like to leave the house: download a movie and look together. Make it a rule to arrange joint home movies, because it's so cool: sit together in the evening and watch a good movie. Once again I will remind you of the importance of respectful attitude towards the wife. On your part there should be no screaming, no rudeness, and, especially, assault - it is not worthy of a man, especially a man. And now about one important detail, which is often overlooked by many men. How are household chores distributed among you?

Do not be selfish

Often I hear: "This is not a man's job," "this should be the wife's job," "I work a lot." You know: washing your dishes or making tea with sandwiches will not take much time. In general, I want to give you good advice: try to do all the household chores together. Or distribute responsibilities in such a way that everyone does something about the house. Remember: there is no 100% "male" and "female" work. A man, if the wife is tired, can also wash the dishes, and hang the laundry after washing, and wash the floors and vacuum the carpet. These are the manifestations of love, everything else is just words. If the wife made you breakfast, lunch and dinner, washed the dishes after that and did other household chores, and you did not hit your finger for that day and football watched with beer - this is not love. Look at things realistically: it means that you simply perceive your wife as a servant. Recently saw a good quote on the Internet. "A wife is a dishwasher, a cook, a laundress, a technician, a nurse, a teacher, an educator, an economist, a seamstress, an accountant, a mistress, a psychologist ... And her husband gets tired at work!" Even having a job does not give you the right to do nothing at home. My wife also works, and if not, she is still very tired in this mode. Take some of the household concerns for yourself - at least carry bags from the store. Believe me, many people do not. And then you can rightly say: "Yes, I love my wife."