What answer is an insult?
You were insulted, angry. Painful, insulting, unpleasant. It is clear, however, that something must be done. But what is the answer to the insult?
Overcoming fear
Before you answer, try to calm down, andthe most important thing is to get rid of fear, which your opponent will always be able to smell. By the way, he feels fear also himself, but if you give him the opportunity to feel that you are afraid, he will be impudent before your very eyes. Therefore, cut yourself in the nose: your strength is in your confidence. Only having got rid of fear, it is necessary to think that it is possible to respond to an insult.
What can I say to an insult: tactics
After all, you want a man who has insulted you to shout loudly something like "the fool himself." In no case should not do this.
To respond to the insult, try calmly and confidently. Welcome irony, banter, a smile in my mouth (I, they say, bare hands can not take).
You are a leader, you are not afraid of anything. And so, for example, to the remark: "Something I do not like you," if you are a man, you can answer something like: "And for a long time you began to like men?". In general, show that the word you do not get into your pocket. If this is so, then the enemy, in order not to look pale in front of his friends and girlfriends, will want to put an end to this unpleasant situation for him.
A few rules that need to be learned
- If you are insulted, do everything in order toavoid mutual insults and accusations. Do not forget that this is most likely what your insulter is waiting for. He is looking for something to cling to, looking for the cause of discord. And if he decided to call, he does not care that she is crazy.
- If your dignity was hurt, in no case can not translate all into a joke. It is necessary to be able to adequately respond to the boor, pointing out to him in his place.
- In addition, one must be able to react to the offense in such a way that there is no long continuation of an impartial conversation.
- And further. Respond to insults with maximum restraint and dignity. The abuser will, naturally, impose on you your manner of speaking. But that's where your strength and dignity lies, that you are not going down to this market level. Then, feeling that you are on top, the offender has no choice but to play by your rules.