Why do women lie?

Men are not always able to adequately perceivebehavior of women, simply because the nature of men and women, their thinking and emotional background are different. This simultaneously attracts, but also creates a lot of questions. One such is: why do women lie?

Genes

In our opinion, this is not to a small extentgenes. In primitive times, especially, but for most of the history of the woman depended on the man. At first, because it was weaker physically, then inferior to him in education, since access to it was closed. This situation forced women to use emotional manipulation. They had to somehow defend themselves in a vulnerable position. On the one hand, this situation allows women to better read emotions, because they had to understand the behavior of the satellite by the slightest shadow on the face of the satellite, and on the other, it gave them a weapon in the form of the ability to lie well.

Want to get married

As a woman in the eyes of her beloved andthe surrounding people want to appear impeccable, she starts to hide the unpleasant facts of her biography or just lie on trifles, for example, concerning the prestige of her clothes, work and suchlike things. After all, modernity dictates feminist ideals, but everyone is able and willing to follow them, but still need to correspond. Therefore, as a reaction to inflated social demands, a lie appears.

All this is done by a woman, including, for example,to get married. Especially this desire is strong in Russia. After all, here marriage is seen as a successful career. When the woman's behavior changes naturally after the wedding, the man feels deceived, and in vain, because if you showed your natural behavior before the wedding of a lover, then she might also have thought about finding a party pudachnee.

Manipulation

Also, men can perceive as a liecontradictory information from women, when you understand that a woman wants a certain behavior from a man, but says the opposite. This applies, for example, to conflict situations. The woman is offended and says that she does not want to see a man anymore. But in fact, she expects from him some act of remorse. A man sometimes puts it in bewilderment. But the point here is not at all in female lies, but in the problems of the emotional intelligence of men. After all, a woman can not really say: "I'm offended at you, buy me flowers to make amends." After this phrase disappears the whole fleur frank remorse from the man.

To match

And maybe you just got it with your reproachesand overestimated standards, which she must follow all the time. Therefore, it is easier for her to lie, than once again to listen to an unreasonable stream of criticism. After all, as has already been said, the standards for women have now risen. To quote in society, it should be both beautiful, well-groomed, well-earning, while it is wonderful to cook, watch children and remain carefree and happy. Combining these sometimes incompatible things for some becomes simply unbearable. Perhaps, it is worth to unload your companion and stop reproaching her according to the principle: "But Masha is able to cook fish well ..."

Sometimes it's better to lie

And let's not forget that women -ordinary people, and can lie for the same reasons as everyone else. For example, to make compliments when someone does not deserve to seem polite. Simply, as already mentioned above, what men perceive as rational and objective criticism, others may be considered a deliberate insult. Women feel these moments better, so they know where to lie better for a person. Or to lie "for salvation," when the truth will only make another person worse, for example, a patient who is mortally ill.

Moreover, it is not necessary to exclude lies for the sake of profit. Remember yourself how many times you used this method.

We shared our views on the problem, and now it's up to you to decide what you will do in a difficult situation.