Many of us are good at persuading othersof people. We know the skills of persuasion sometimes even unconsciously, as we need them every day. We do not think when, intuitively knowing what exactly to offer in return, we persuade, for example, the husband, to buy a new dress.

How to persuade a person: recommendations

  1. Be intelligent. Before you begin to ask for something and persuade, politely ask if there is time for the interlocutor to listen to your appeal. You will show him that you respect him and consider him a busy business man.
  2. Speak beautifully. Your conversation is capable of bewitching anyone if your statements are beautiful, unusual and interesting. Our psychology works so that an eloquent and even slightly insolent speaker is more difficult to refuse his request. Add to your vocabulary more such words: "Please", "Sorry for concern," "Thank you." If you have already achieved your goal, do not forget to express gratitude, otherwise the next time you will be refused assistance.
  3. Smile more often. Show your charisma, smile, maintain a cheerful mood among others and at home. When people are in a good mood, you can achieve anything from them, because they will listen to you with pleasure and, hardly thinking about the true meaning of your words, will accept your point of view.
  4. Make a service. Before you persuade people, do something for them. They will feel that they owe you and simply will not be able to refuse the request. Take for yourself the rule of doing good deeds, because good always comes back.
  5. Infect the idea. Instruct the interlocutor that your idea is unique, interesting and fully corresponds to his personal interests. So you will attract the immediate attention of your opponent.
  6. Surprise me. You can not be completely obvious and predictable in your persuasion. Try to make sure that people do not even realize that you are leading them to fulfill their desires.
  7. Do not tune in to a positive response. Be prepared to be denied. For some reason, when we inwardly expect to hear a refusal, we are answered with a "yes".
  8. Do not be afraid to tell the truth. In our time, sincerity surprises and amazes. If you understand that you can not persuade a person, admit to him that you want to satisfy only your interests. Most likely, he will simply be taken aback by such a surprise and do what you ask.
  9. Be able to stop. If you see that you are bored with the interlocutor and will become bored, stop persuading, otherwise your importunity will lead to nothing.

Successful company

The success of any commercial organization is based on financial stability, the existence of which is impossible without the demand of customers for products. How to persuade a person to buy goods?

  1. Light side. Tell only about the positive qualities of the product, while holding back negative.
  2. Only yes. Never use a particle of "not". For example: "Do you want a sauce for potatoes?", Or "You probably do not plan to buy a TV today?". The buyer listens to you and answers, of course, no. You yourself prompted him such an answer.
  3. Without negativity. Do not remember the bad moments with the buyer, so as not to spoil his mood. Do not talk about the case of marriage, even if it was a single one or that the supplier is dishonest.
  4. Saving money. Speak more about the fact that buying a product, the client saves a lot of time and money. About its costs is better to remain silent.
  5. Do not intrude. Nobody likes annoying sellers, and strive to sell their goods as soon as possible. Be a bit more reserved and customers will reach out to you!

We hope our advice and recommendations will help you to learn to convince people and agree with your point of view. Good luck in your beliefs!

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