How to test your feelings

Few people like this condition, when it is impossible toto figure out what I want, where I'm going and what I feel. Especially it concerns love emotions. It also happens that we lose our vital reference point so much that suddenly we find ourselves among people with whom we certainly would not like to communicate. How can you figure out who is really dear and weed out unnecessary people?

"You know," says one, "I have five women at the same time." I'm sick of it, but I can not choose one. How would I weed them out?

"Give it a revelation," advises his friend.

"How is this a revelation?"

- And so: feel yourself completely free, and tell everyone about everything else.

"But how will that help?"

- And you try.

Their next meeting in six months:

- So how is it? Got my advice?

- Good advice. Thank you. When I became frank, two of my women immediately refused to meet with me. Well, okay. It was, you might say, a crude screening. There were three left. And then the most interesting thing began. I very soon found out that I can not be with everyone equally frank. One I could tell everything, the other half, the third nothing at all. At the same time, one could tell everything, but I did not speak the other language about the other. It ended with the fact that I found that I alone can tell everything, but I did not want to talk about it with anyone.

"She left you," said the friend.

- Exactly. Interestingly, this simple method works so well.

- It works because revelation isa measure of feelings. It very quickly sifts useless people. And in all cases of life. I always part with someone I can not be frank with, and I'm tied to someone I can not talk about.