How to fall in love with yourself?
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Undivided love is what has happened to everyoneof us, regardless of gender and age. Everyone knows this feeling, although many deny this fact. Because unrequited feelings are painful and unpleasant. Experiencing them, I want to be shielded from everyone, lock myself in and completely isolate myself from the outside world. Unrequited love is terrible, because a person who experiences this feeling gives the impression that he is not needed by anyone. But one should not despair. It is worth trying ... to fall in love with the object of adoration. This is quite real. After all, the relationship between people is chemistry. And if you can make it so that a person will hate you, it means that you can evoke positive feelings from him. In any case, it's worth trying.
How to fall in love with a man: three major steps
Girls have long been tried in every waytie a guy to him. There are a lot of ways for this. But there are three golden rules, which should always be adhered to. Of course, we do not guarantee that it will be possible to achieve instant reciprocity, but positive feelings will be uniquely called.
- It is better to find out the guy or the man from whomI want to achieve reciprocity. You should study topics that he likes to discuss, start getting carried away with what he likes. If the guy is a fan of football, then the girl should start watching matches, learn the history of the club for which he is sick, review the games of this team. And as if casually, in conversation, mention something about it. If this does not happen, then you can turn the conversation in the right direction. Let's say, ask after the weekend, what he did on days off. As a rule, after the answer follows a mutual similar question. And here you can answer: "And I was reviewing the best matches of" Milan "for the 2005th year ...". For a real fan of this club, this information will become a real "hook", to which he definitely bites. In any case, a common theme will appear, which will become the road to closer communication. And when talking, you need to listen to your interlocutor, give him a say, say that he is right - in general, be an ideal opponent.
- You should remember about your appearance. It is necessary to always look on "excellent", to be beautiful every day. Everyone knows that a man loves his eyes. Accordingly, to please, you must be well-groomed, suitably dressed - beautiful, attractive, but not vulgar. It is not necessary to be the owner of an ideal model appearance. Accurate styling, nice make-up, well-groomed skin, beautiful hands, harmonious clothing - that's enough.
- It is worth showing your sympathy. Praise him, make compliments, support his ideas, make him feel needed. Of course, everything within the reasonable - you need to know the measure and feel this fine line, otherwise your compliments will turn into an unpleasant flattery.
The path to the girl's heart lies through ...
Of course, girls are mysterious creatures, butto win your passion is very real. Representatives of the beautiful half of humanity love when they are achieved, although they often do the same - the above example is evidence of this. So, here, too, there are a few secrets.
- It is necessary to let your beloved know that toshe has feelings. How? It's simple, it's not for nothing that they say that girls love their ears. I need to tell her about it. If you do not want to "cut the truth from the shoulder," you can say hints - the girls understand them. Compliments about her appearance, character - all this will be pleasant for her to hear. Many girls conceal, hearing pleasant words, and lose their heads from whoever says them. In general, you need to show signs of attention. And this will not go unnoticed.
- We must be active, proactive, confident. Girls like this. But you can not go too far. You should seek to communicate with her, for this it is desirable to find common themes. But it can not be intrusive - from such girls quickly get tired. It is necessary for a while sometimes to "disappear" from the field of vision, so that the beloved has time to become bored. In communication it is necessary to manifest yourself as a leader - to think extraordinarily, to joke, in general, to do everything to make conversations easy and interesting. We must show honesty and sincerity. Sincere words are the most reliable weapon for conquering a girl.
- Appearance is also important. But here it is enough to be neat, tidy and pleasant to smell. But with a guy who has not washed his hair for a week, under the fingernails accumulated dirt, and the mouth smells bad, the girl definitely does not want to communicate.
As can be seen from all of the above,girls and guys have to do about the same things to cause mutual feelings in their adoration object. In general, everything can be generalized into one phrase. You just need to show your love, to show it in an unobtrusive manner.
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- How to fall in love with a girl in yourself
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- How to fall in love with a girl