How to calm the guy?

From time to time, each of us under the influence ofthe circumstances are out of oneself. The reasons for this may be mass. But what to do when an outsider is not angry with you, but your favorite? How to calm a guy or husband, if he is not just angry, but angry? We will try to find out now, because we need a calm man, and not an angry lion.

How to calm a man

To calm an angry man, we needcertain skills. After all, it is very important to do it right, otherwise we risk getting the opposite result and further aggravating the situation. There are several small secrets that you need to not only know, but also be able to apply them in practice in a critical situation.

• The first secret. If your man is angry, then the least that you have to do is try not to argue with him and not to contradict. If you begin to prove to him that his anger is vain, groundless and unfair, then only warm up his warlike mood, and finally bring the situation to the point of no return. Then all his aggression will go to you, placing you on a par with the rascal who brought him to such a state. If the cause of his anger was originally you, then you will only have to dream of reconciliation.
• The second secret, which flows smoothly from the first. Agree with all the arguments that leads to your enraged "macho". Even if the question concerns what you strongly disagree with. Now is not the right time to prove that you are right. Do this later, when your loved one will be in a relaxed and good-natured state. Now you do not have to do anything else, as soon as you nod, and repeat that he is indisputably undoubtedly right about everything. Just know the measure so that it does not look like a mockery.
• The third secret. Let your furious lion speak out. After all, while the flow of angry words does not run out in a natural way, all further actions will be useless. And do not stop it in any way. This is not only useless, but also dangerous.
• The fourth secret. Suppress your obsessive desire to calm him down by all means. If your loved one was at odds, the best thing you can do is to shut up or, as an option, leave him alone for a while. You can spend the time of his solitude to do something pleasant for him, just what he likes. For example, bake him his favorite cake. Or just run to the store for something tasty.
• The fifth secret. After the angry flow runs out, try to smoothly translate your conversation into another topic. Better take it up with something. The main task is to distract your man's thoughts from the main irritant. When choosing a topic for conversation, try to make sure that the new topic did not overlap with the question that caused his anger. And remember that you must deftly and skillfully take it away from the topic, while the irritated brain will try its best to bring it back.

So we found out how to calm your beloved. This process will require you a lot of patience, sensitivity and love for your man. Only by loving you can you feel and understand how to behave, what to say at this moment, and where to remain silent.